Stop Waiting for Your Milk to “Come In”. It’s Already Here!

Important words to reassure worried mothers ❤

Maya and the Moon

Ok Ladies, it’s time we had a little chat about your lovely boobs!

I spend a lot of time frequenting breastfeeding support groups online. I’m also currently training to become a breastfeeding peer supporter and attend breastfeeding groups regularly around my home town. And it’s come to my attention that a lot of hard working milk mamas are getting their nursing bras in a bit of a twist about when their milk will ‘come in’.

I just need to clear this one thing up with you all, here and now!

From the day your baby is born, YOUR MILK IS HERE! (Actually, technically it’s been there for weeks!)

That lovely juicy, creamy stuff that drops from your breasts, the minute your baby starts sucking, is milk!

Yes ladies, Colostrum IS milk. Newborn milk. And it’s some good shit!

Colostrum is low in fat, and high in carbohydrates, protein and anti-bodies…

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Your Body Created Life… So Why Don’t You Give It A Break?

by Gwen Aktinson

Duchess of CambridgeI won’t be the first person to talk about the mixed messages women receive, and I certainly won’t be the last. But when a woman decides to have a family, these messages come thick and fast. Let’s look at the world’s most famous mother right now: the Duchess of Cambridge, aka Kate Middleton. After giving birth to Prince George, she was both praised and lambasted for having the courage or audacity to actually look as she had recently given birth twenty four hours after she had actually given birth. Fast forward nearly two years later and the slightly differently stage managed introduction of Princess Charlotte to the world had Kate presenting a more figure flattering image. The criticism/praise still came thick and fast.

Fed up with the multiple celebrity look at me now photo shoots showing a flat stomach mere weeks after labour, I decided to photograph my post birth baby bump, to show what a reasonably fit and healthy, but mostly normal mum looks like (don’t laugh I said mostly normal). We naturally compare ourselves and I was sick of women feeling inadequate or even considering starting the diet before the baby has arrived. A combination of genes, luck, breastfeeding and really terrible hospital food meant I was back to my pre-pregnancy weight a week after giving birth and in normal jeans a week after that. I didn’t take any photographs; in my own special way I was disappointed my body didn’t behave as expected.


My own little prince took a long time to arrive, and I had a number of health issues during that time. I was simultaneously told I was selfish for not yet starting a family and selfish for trying to conceive in less than perfect health, as well as being selfish for wanting help to get healthy and to conceive. I was told my medication for depression would harm my baby, but without it the risk of post natal depression was another danger. When finally our miracle happened conventional wisdom told me I should be unhappy with changes in my body. But this couldn’t have been further from the truth. I’d look at my expanding belly with awe and wonder knowing that something remarkable was happening inside me. Did you know that one of the first things you do is get thirstier than normal? This forces your body to make extra red blood cells so you can transport the additional oxygen your baby needs. Not even Steve Jobs could have designed something that simple to fix so complicated a problem.

Despite what the media would have you believe your body does some fantastic things in labour too. Oxytocin is the magical chemical that kicks off the contractions. It’s known as the love hormone and the huge amounts created helps you bond with your baby. But it also releases your milk and then with continued breastfeeding it helps your uterus shrink back to its pre-pregnancy size. Recent studies have shown what women should already know, that successfully breastfeeding helps prevent post natal depression, by keeping the extra oxytocin in your life for as long as possible. I am also convinced breastfeeding, or the lack of having to prepare formula through the night has meant I get a good night’s sleep. And there is a reason the Nazis used sleep deprivation as torture.


The mixed messages continue throughout the breastfeeding journey. There is huge pressure to nurse, but very little practical support, and what little there is can actually undermine the new mother. I’d like to take the time to thank Milk Matters, La Leche League and The Breastfeeding Network for the fantastic assistance you gave me. But there were countless more: friends, family and complete strangers. Your ability to maintain eye contact and smile helped me more than you will ever know.

Next up is how long should you nurse for? Well as most commercial clothing is also a combination of nursing and maternity it seems to be about the two weeks it takes for your belly to stop looking pregnant. Or maybe for years it takes to work up the energy to do it all again. Six months appears to be a landmark that many mums aim for, but any less and you gave up too soon. Any more and you are ‘strange’. But breastfeeding is a journey and like all of them there is no fixed timescale or path. Whether it lasted minutes or years, every mouthful made a difference to your child. Whether you used formula, expressed, stayed true to the boob or combined any of the above. You are amazing, and you did so very, very well.

A common reason given for stopping nursing is ‘getting your body back’. This seems to be part of western society’s attitude that mums aren’t attractive. Thank god we no longer believe that having sex causes your milk to curdle, but women are known for multitasking. If we can do more than one thing at a time, why can’t we be more than one thing at a time and rock it too? The This Girl Can campaign which went viral through its wonderful message that women of all shapes and sizes be proud of what their bodies can do. I for one am struggling to think of something more empowering of first creating and then sustaining human life.

Where do clothes fit into this story? You don’t have to be a princess to feel pressure to look good. Even if you aren’t going to be photographed or beamed across the world, clothes send a message of how you want to be perceived. Can I Breastfeed in it? UK has followers who want to look and feel good for all sorts of different social occasions; we have business meetings, weddings, music festivals and heart-breakingly sad funerals. We are political, funny and fancy that cute one from The Wanted. We run races for charity and go on holiday to far flung places. We want and need clothes that reflect these situations and our personalities, as well as coping with the demands of our little muck magnet milk monsters. Too many of the retailers think of us as a one dimensional, one size fits all, narrow group of women. Our bodies have done and continue to do something amazing, surely our clothes should support and echo this message.

Breastfeeding in Public is more than a Radio Rant

By Gwen Atkinson

I almost feel sorry for Alex Dyke. Earlier this week he decided (alongside his Producer Alun Newman) to broach the subject of breastfeeding in public in his push-the-envelope radio phone-in show. While I disagree with what he said and how he said it wholeheartedly, I don’t think he realised that he was taking on such a large, passionate and well organised group of individuals. He will have plenty of time to reflect on this as he has been suspended from BBC Radio Solent, despite apologising on air.

I did contact Mr Dyke and he gave me the courtesy of a reply, even asking me to contact the phone in show, and was prepared to speak to me off air before to reassure me of how my on air reply would be handled. For a number of reasons I declined and out of respect I won’t publish the details of a private conversation. I also did listen to the beginning of the phone in before it became unavailable. I switched off early as it made me very angry, so again out of respect I will only comment on what I heard. My personal interpretation was that his comments were not necessarily his own but deliberately inflammatory to get a reaction. He may regret what he said now, but here is my take on it nonetheless.

A common question is where is a woman allowed to breastfeed? The answer in England is anywhere she is legally entitled to be. This covers private venues because restaurants and gyms etc provide a public service. In the rest of the UK the guidelines are similar, and the forward thinking Scots have also made it illegal to prevent a woman from nursing. The exceptions to this are as follows: A small club with less than 25 members that provides no public service can legally state no breastfeeding, male-only clubs/organisations that provide a service aimed at that gender and places where it is unsafe to feed, such as industrial areas. I think even the most passionate lactivist would agree that this is fair and reasonable.

I’ll let you into a little secret, babies can’t speak. When you become a mother you become very sensitive to your little person’s body language, and by default everybody else around you. You become conscious of the little sideways glances, stiffening of jaws and other tell tale signs of discomfort. Very few people react that way, but for those of you that get uncomfortable with me feeding in public, I don’t want to make your day awkward and you are entitled to your opinions and feelings. But here is secret number two; my baby’s hunger, fear and pain take a higher priority. Add into this the fact no-one wants to hear a baby scream for longer than is necessary, so please respect that what I am doing is actually aimed at making things better for my child and, because of your proximity to us, you as well.

Mr Dyke said he thought breastfeeding mothers should keep to a private nursery and to a certain extent I agree with him. Caring for your child is such a personal relationship I want to focus on my baby without the judgemental stares of strangers or the well intentioned but utterly frustrating comments from friends and family. At home I have a comfortable chair, a nursing pillow, a drink handy and no distractions. Unfortunately, life means I do have to leave the house. There are bills to pay, appointments to attend and sometimes a quick run out to the shops, pretending to be a human being, is what stops me from losing what little of my mind I have left. Our contributors travel across the world, attend sporting events both as spectators and participants, rock on at music festivals, or go on family outings. The thought that women stop having a life once they give birth ended a good generation ago. The suggestion that we should time our excursions to in between feeds shows a complete lack of understanding of a baby’s needs. I challenge Mr Dyke or anyone with his views to leave the house with a child, use public transport, run the errands expected of us and return home in the allotted time. Add to this that the gaps between feeds are often as little as an hour or two and are subject to change without notice (demanding little lovable so and so’s).

Nursing in Public

There are very few places out and about that provide a suitable private setting to breastfeed. Most mother and baby rooms are in toilets and I have no desire to spend twenty minutes smelling someone else’s excrement. The chairs have no armrests, and if you think that isn’t relevant, pick up a small animal weighing 15lbs and hold it to your chest for half and hour while it wriggles. Oh by the way, your stomach muscles are shot because of a recent pregnancy, so get someone to poke you to replicate the back ache most new mothers have. Whilst they’re at it, your non-nursing boob leaks, so create a few embarrassing wet patches. It takes more confidence than you would think to nurse in front of others and I would like to thank the many people, but mostly men, who encouraged me and supported me to do this. Many of you may not realise you did this, and you are now officially as cool as Keith Richards; in my eyes at least.

A common suggestion, often well meaning, is to cover up, either with a muslin or a purpose made cover. Firstly, lots of women do this and if they prefer it, wonderful, but it was something I never considered. You may find this shocking, but some of the covers marketed at mothers are dangerous, they are made from heavy material so it gets dangerously hot for baby. Some block eye contact and this means mum can’t keep checking baby is safe. It can also interfere with the early communication lessons a baby receives by interacting with their mother at feeding time. I regularly refer to breastfeeding as a relationship, this is because the baby is a key factor in the decisions women make. One contributor talked about the baby getting stressed under the cover and refusing to feed; the flailing arms and cries of discomfort actually drew more attention to her feeding than if she hadn’t used a cover. Others object to covers, purpose-made or draped muslins, on principle. It could be argued that attempt to hide breastfeeding stops it from being normalised and every effort to nurse in public makes it easier for the next mother.

Mr Dyke also asked why we don’t use formula. I can’t help thinking the reason why the original broadcast is not available is because any suggestion that formula is almost as good as breastmilk breaches numerous laws. I’ll let the people who know more than me on that subject pass judgement. Suffice to say formula isn’t as good; not even close. Many people believe that the differences are neglible in the western world and more significant to families living where the lack of access to clean water to make formula dangerous and health in general isn’t as good. Not true. A study published in Pediatrics (Official Journal of the American Academy of Pediatrics) stated:

If 90% of US families could comply with medical recommendations to breastfeed exclusively for 6 months, the United States would save $13 billion per year and prevent an excess 911 deaths, nearly all of which would be in infants ($10.5 billion and 741 deaths at 80% compliance).

To put this in context this is the same number of people who die each year in the USA from meningitis. Current advice on making formula from recently boiled water no less than 70 oC into a sterile bottle and disposing of it within 2 hours of making it up means it not that great when out and about either.

What about expressed breastmilk (EBM)? Surely putting that in a bottle is OK if formula isn’t? Well, some people (myself included) give EBM. It certainly means I can leave the house for non baby-related activities leaving him with a sitter. But again, this doesn’t work for everybody all the time. For example if I try to give mine EBM now, he refuses it point blank. For someone else to give him some, I have to leave the room and hide.  It also runs the risk of stopping the breastfeeding relationship altogether with the drying up of a mother’s milk or nipple confusion. The production of milk relies on the baby being attached to the nipple and the cues from the baby’s saliva and gulps guides the mother to making milk of the right combination of nutrients and antibodies to her child.  Mother’s milk changes morning, noon and night, throughout out the course of each feed to meet a child’s needs. This isn’t something out of the Stone Age, but evidence that we are highly evolved creatures.

Some of Mr Dykes more inflammatory comments were about what has been described to me elsewhere as ‘The cult of motherhood’; that only a certain type of mother breastfeeds. Maybe that is true, but this week David Beckham was criticised for his style of parenting when his four year old daughter was seen in public with a dummy. The rights and wrongs of either are irrelevant, his response to critics is:  “Why do people feel they have the right to criticize a parent about their own children without having any facts.” We don’t, I defend your right to parent how you see fit, and expect mine to have the same respect.

There were other comments about the attractiveness of mothers who chose to breastfeed; that a good looking women would be unlikely nurse a child (especially publicly). Well, the pictures published by Miranda Kerr, Giselle Bundchen and Angel Doutzen Kroes breastfeeding would contradict this. I’m not normally one for finding women attractive, but I’m assured that these women are. Certainly my American friends have commented their Victoria Secret catalogues going missing and appearing after a husband or other male relative has… ahem… perused them.

I will end my commentary with this thought: Underneath the comments from Mr Dyke and some of his callers seemed to be a theme that a woman’s primary role is to please a man. That their value is based on how they look and whether they have taken into account a man’s point of view when they make fundamental choices such as how they parent or dress. This is why a few throwaway remarks on a minor (sorry local radio fans) phone in show have relevance to women everywhere, why the story has started to trend on the internet and why Mr Dyke no doubt feels overwhelmed by the petitions, open letters and news stories. Again, the response is wider than just this blog and when looked at from that viewpoint has been given in another trending story this week:

Check out this slideshow to see what nursing in public really looks like:

How Do You Breastfeed In It?

When Natalie Halman started Can I Breastfeed in it UK? She didn’t really think it would take off the way it did. It seemed a little niche to be that popular, and certainly the selection of nursing wear out there confirms this point of view. But the attention of the Facebook group is gaining is gathering momentum, at the rate of over a thousand followers a month. There are also selling and off topic spin off groups to cope with the ever expanding traffic it generated. To put this into context another Facebook group for a mail order organic gardening company has about half as many members.
So what unites the followers? Well, we breastfeed and we wear clothes. Although I have to admit the lack of decent clothing, constant dirtying and therefore washing of what few clothes I have, means I am more than happy to spend my home alone days in my underwear. Once I forgot and the postman got the shock of his life when I answered the door. I did apologise, but he ran so fast down the hill I don’t think he heard me.

Like most parts of motherhood, deciding what clothes to wear when breastfeeding is really governed by the practicalities of how you get it done. There are four basic styles of getting your tits out, the over the top: the pull up; one up, one down; and the peek-a-boo. Some women have a favourite, some use all four, and it can change depending on the circumstances. There is no right or wrong here, just what suits each person, but each has their own advantages and disadvantages.

The over the top method involves wearing something with a loose or otherwise accessible neckline, such as buttons or zips, so you pull the hem down or to the side to allow access to the breasts. Simple and easy, it doesn’t require special clothing but it can expose more flesh than people are comfortable with. If mums want to, they can wear a nursing cover, or even a muslin draped across the chest can combat this. You can tuck a handkerchief under the bra strap, or even buy a clip to keep it in place. For me these are just more things to remember, and you’ve heard of baby brain, right? If someone other than a mum feels uncomfortable with the skin on display, they can close their eyes, turn their head, take a long walk off a short pier.

The pull up involves you wearing a not-too-fitted top and pulling it up to release the boobs. (That sounds great doesn’t it – I’m imaging a James Bond villain’s plot to take over the world and shouting it aloud to an orchestra playing in the background. You know I don’t get out much.) Again it’s simple and easy, but not advisable if you are wearing a dress. And having just said goodbye to cover-alls and tents, I wanted to be able to pretend I had a waist. Even without the changes that happen to your body with pregnancy, many women’s bellies don’t see the light of day. The child will cover much of it and it is possible to use the muslins tucked into the bottom of the bra to make you feel more comfortable. A few entrepreneurial mums created belly covers that can be worn under normal clothes.

The one up one down, combines the over the top and pull up by having two layers of clothing, typically a vest and a lose top, but the options are as creative as the women who ear them. This is a very popular option, but while this addresses some of the issues with both, it creates new problems. Firstly is requires twice as many clothes as before, twice as much to wash when your milk leaks, or baby returns the milk to you, either before or after fully digesting it (sometimes ducking is not an option). And it still isn’t a good idea to do this in a dress. Plus I must offer respect to all those mothers out there who actually have the time and patience to not only find two rather than one items of clothing that are clean, but get them to match. In some cases, clever combinations of colours, textures and lengths can do wonders to flatter your figure.

Then there is the final option – the peek-a-boo. This is usually a specifically designed piece of nursing wear, but some of us who can be trusted with scissors and needles will adapt high street clothes by adding button holes or flaps through which – yes you guessed it . This is my preferred option, but the limitations are that you have a much reduced amount of styles to choose from. I remember buying a red and white striped top for dual purpose maternity and nursing while pregnant. I wasn’t particularly enthralled with it, but parted with my hard earned cash simply because it was neither white, black nor navy. It was promptly christened my ‘Where’s Wally’ top by two separate people, and thrown in the back of my wardrobe. Luckily, there are some retailers (such as Milk & Mummy) out there with the intention to change this drab vision of nursing wear! Hurrah!

Top left and bottom right pictures feature clothing from Milk & Mummy clothing (link to shop at bottom of post)
More and more these days the items can only be bought online and the issues of buying clothes without trying them on multiplies post partum. Few of us are standard sizes to begin with (and few shops seem to agree what these are anyway). Our followers range in size from 4’10’’ to 5’11’ and from a size 8 (on a bloated day) to a size 26 but add in the fact we may be losing our all over pregnancy weight, the stomach muscles might bounce back soon, and will our breasts please pick a size and stick with it? The ease of home delivery is often tempered by having to guess or order multiple sizes. Imagine one contributor’s disappointment after ordering six dresses only to find not one fitted and she had lost £24 in postage for unsuitable clothing. 

You might be surprised to learn that it is my son is a big influence on what clothes I wear. Some babies like to hold on to something on the neck line so over the top is no use. Others will refuse a cover or any spare material around the neckline in any way shape or form. As with most other aspects of motherhood, even the decision over what you get to dress yourself in is vetoed by that adorable little tyrant. My red and white stripped top returned from exile to see if it was any use when nursing, but the peek a boo slit was far too small. My son doesn’t want a mouthful off breast, he wants a big face full. ‘Where’s Wally?’ ‘In the way of my boobie, now get lost.’

For me the most frustrating part of buying tops and dresses online is the way so few retailers actually show how you are expected to feed in the clothing. Is it really that hard to show a few extra photos showing which flap you move or strap you untie? I am lucky enough to live close to several big shopping centres went into one designer store to get a feel of the dresses I saw online. The feeling I got was short fat and ugly.

This is why Can I Breastfeed in it UK is so successful. Advertisers pay ‘real people’ to sell their products, but here are thousands of us doing the hard work for them. The photographs don’t use clever lighting or airbrushing. I can see it looks good on someone a similar size to me, so chances are it will look good on me as well. Plus, us mums are good problem solvers and canny buyers. We can look to see if something can be adapted or a find a voucher to stretch our buying power. We want to breastfeed, we want to look our best doing it, and the pennies we are saving on formula need to go somewhere.

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What do breastfeeding women want from fashion?

I conducted a survey of 1000 breastfeeding women to find out their opinions about the clothing available to them both online and on the high street. This survey pointed out the following:

  • That 95.54% of breastfeeding women feel that nursing clothing (excluding maternity wear) available on the high street is inadequate.
  • That 76.76% of breastfeeding women feel that nursing clothing (excluding maternity wear) available online is inadequate.
  • That 68.89% of breastfeeding women are not happy purchasing clothing which is primarily designed as maternity and secondarily as nursing wear – 27.06% are sometimes happy with this.
  • Only 4.30% of breastfeeding women feel the prices of nursing specific clothing are reasonable.
  • That 53.08% of breastfeeding women feel that having easy breast access is the most important feature, followed by ability to feed discreetly at 29.82%.
  • 88.22% of breastfeeding women are happy to spend between £20-£70 on a good quality outfit, with the highest number happy to spend between £30-40 (28.29%).
  • 56.57% of breastfeeding women are happy to spend between £0-£20 on a casual everyday breastfeeding friendly outfit
  • That 81.12% are not happy with the selection of nursing bras available on the high street.
  • That over half of those surveyed (55.71%) found that high streets tend not to stock their bra size.

Link to full survey results: Breastfeeding fashion survey

‘That’ BF Friendly dress everyone’s talking about…

By Gwen Atkinson

You may not have met her yet, but Faye is very popular. In fact, right now my Facebook feed has 8 posts from the last hour about her. Proud selfies with her, events she is going to, and people just bragging about how happy they are to have met her. Those that have been introduced extol her virtues, how flattering she is, and how good she makes them feel.

 Who is Faye? What paragon has created such a following among five thousand (and counting) women on social media? A model? She is pretty, but no. A self help guru? She’ll make you feel better about yourself: more confident to go outside, but she won’t solve all your problems. For the uninitiated Faye is a reasonably priced, floral print dress. Surprised? I think the people at Boohoo are. I have an image of the warehouse staff, darting from shelf to shelf, looking for spare supplies to keep up with demand. Their fingers aching from making packages and tongues tasting quite vile from tearing all that sticky tape. All the while the managerial supremos are scratching their heads struggling to find out why she is a top seller and how to replicate it. Then again, I don’t get out much, but I’ll explain why later.

The reason why Faye is so popular is because the cut of the dress means women can breastfeed in it. And in age old tradition, one woman told another, who told another. The difference is that in the world of social media this turned into a few thousand in a very short space of time. The comments have stressed how it suits women of different heights and body types, including the common post birth special of extra lumpy. The stretchy material skims the parts women feel less confident about at this time, and enables the mums to pull the neckline down to nurse when needed. Some praise the straps for improving the fit and making feeding easier, others found them a little thin. Alongside the commentary of Faye’s sins and virtue ran a discussion on what bra to wear with it, but this a blog post all by itself. Another recurring theme was how generous the sizing was. Remember the unfettered joy at having to get a size smaller than normal? Even the most body confident lady finds will use this as an extra reason to get a dress.

Before I became a mother, I knew I wanted to breastfeed, but I didn’t understand the practicalities involved, and suitable clothing was one I completely underestimated. Maternity clothes were hard enough to find, mostly falling into two categories that I named tent or twee. Yes, there are some designer clothes, just look at the Duchess of Cambridge, but I have neither the budget nor the figure of Kate, particularly as a soon-to-be mum. Clothes you can breastfeed in are usually a more difficult to find subcategory of maternity wear. Designers seem to believe women are both heavily pregnant and breastfeeding at the same time (no I don’t understand that either) and create clothing that are functional for both. But, and here is the issue, while I have many more wobbly parts than pre-pregnancy, I don’t need to accommodate a football / baby rhino under a dress or top anymore. I want to feel that I am still the same sophisticated, fashionable and, dare I say it, sexy woman I was before. Nor does life stop after motherhood; there are still invitations to weddings, parties, christenings (unsurprisingly) and gosh-darn-it-I-just-to-feel-pretty days.  

Once upon a time shopping meant collecting money and keys, heading out to wherever I fancied, sure in the knowledge I would return with something suitable without too much effort. Not only are the right dresses in short supply, I now have a man in my life who really isn’t that easy to get out the front door, doesn’t know if my bum looks big in it, and just when I finally squeezed me, him, the pram and nappy bag into a changing room decides to drop a big one into his pants. Then if I get one I like, it often needs altering; a press stud here, an extra zip there. Not everyone is that crafty, and even if you are, who has the time or opportunity to get sharp implements out? At the end of a long day not sure whether I’d trust myself with scissors. 

So I asked my fairy godmother to find me an outfit that was pretty and feminine, reasonably priced, that flattered someone without a model figure and could be dressed up or down depending on the occasion. I asked for it to be sent to my home address promptly and without spending more than a week’s supply of nappies on delivery, so I could try on it on in my own time. My fairy godmother, in the disguise of Can I Breastfeed in it UK, told me about Faye, tempted me with positive their reviews, money-off voucher codes, and I am so very glad she did. But, and this may not surprise you, as much as I love Faye, does she have a rock chick sister?



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Wardrobe staples: the boob friendly skater dress

My first review is going to be of my favourite breastfeeding friendly item of clothing so far. This dress is *technically* maternity wear but with its cut, I’d say it’s nursing friendly with the added bonus that you could wear it whilst pregnant, rather than the other way around!

Plus points for me are:

  • Nice and stretchy. If you are unsure of sizing, you could go for the smaller size and get away with it!
  • Comes in at the smallest part of the waist
  • Flattering v-neck – some ladies may prefer to wear a crop top or vest top underneath for modesty (not me though! 😆)
  • Stretchy enough to accommodate a large bosom!
  • Easy to pull down to get a boob out
  • Could be worn as casual or smart
  • Available in many different arm lengths/colours/patterns
  • Long enough to wear without leggings, short enough to not look frumpy
  • I’ve found it to be flattering on the mummy tummy where there is a good amount of material at the front
  • CHEAP!

I’m yet to find any against points but the largest size is an 18 although if you are a small 20 you could probably squeeze in ok.

I bought two dresses in different colours and arm lengths:

Black sleeveless dress
Black sleeveless dress

Purple short sleeve dress
Purple short sleeve dress

Easy boobing!
I am a size 16 and I think I could’ve fit a 14 but not sure I would’ve had the extra material available to flatter the tummy and bum/legs.

**edit** NEGATIVE POINT:With the purple one in particular I found that even water leaves the fabric a slightly different colour once wet (and dried). Not sure if this effects other colours but the black one seems to be fine. 

This dress seems to be a generic style across many different sellers on both eBay and Amazon. They can be found by using the search term ‘maternity skater dress’ but here are some links to make it easier for you:

eBay – Happy Mama (short sleeved, plain colours)

eBay – Happy Mama (sleeveless, plain colours)

Happy Mama Boutique eBay shop

Amazon – Zeta Ville (sleeveless, plain colours)

Amazon – Zeta Ville (short sleeved, plain colours)

Amazon – Zeta Ville shop